It's not so much as 'appearing gay' as it is 'appearing androgynous and feminine.' There's like a scale of masculinity and femininity that has manly at 1 and girly at 10.
(Y'know, cause I am one.) I just want to emphasize this.
I guess a better way to put it, is I'd like some help finding out how to dress a bit cuter and more fun, perhaps even youthful, while still appearing to be a man. I'm not the kind of person who has to shove it in other peoples face, but I would like to subtly express my more recently discovered feminine side. I'm not very shy about my sexuality, but the thing is most people don't know I'm bisexual unless I tell them. How do I appear more gay? I have recently come out as bisexual (About 12 months being 'out' and about 13 months knowing my sexuality!). Cause apparently only men who like dudes care about being decently dressed right? /sarcasm So I've seen a lot of MFA members talking about how when they suddenly started dressing nicer, they got a lot of people accusing them of being gay.
Note: It has taken me a long time to decide whether or not I want to post this, but I have decided that I should, so I will.
